Resolution #1: Make This Your Best Year (and How to Do It)

Time for New Years resolutions? Or time for something different?
What if this year you made ASPIRATIONS instead of RESOLUTIONS?
What if you focused on things you want to DO and experience rather than a narrow set of problems?

For the last few years, I’ve done just that.

I start each year with a big hairy question: “How can I make this the best year of my life?” Making each year better than the last is a tall order, but I'd say four of the past several years have been my best. The first year I did this simply blew me away, it was so great!

My self-challenge usually includes resolution-y things related to finance and weight. But the idea here though is to work on those goals as part of an overall yearly plan with related goals.

Step 1: Review your life list to see what you want in life.

Not sure? Here's a fun way to brainstorm.

There are lots of ways to track all your goals over the years. I happen to like SuperViva but also sometimes make short lists on paper, backs of business cards, or on my phone. (more ideas

People with big lists on SuperViva, like me, are using the site's ability to have a true a la carte menu of things to do in life, both big and small. Come time to plan the year, it's easy to rearrange and re-prioritize based on the year.

My list has such random things as:

• Go surfing in Bali
• Teach my niece to make cookies
• Buy a rental property
• Lose 20 pounds

Is your life list complete? You don't need to do it all at once of course. But if you have time, try exploring SuperViva to get some more ideas.

Step 2: Start planning the year (It's not as boring as it sounds.)

Some practical and fuzzy tips:

• Generally, what are you in the mood to do based on your current life situation?
  
  Are you in a "mid life crisis" or ready to settle down? Are you feeling wanderlust? Fit this general feeling into your "2007 Theme" to guide you.
  
  
• What will become impossible if you don't do it now?
  
  For example one year I realized if I wanted to work on saving the rainforests now is the time, not in 10 years. Did you want to see James Brown in concert? It's too late now. Think about what you want to do that you should not delay.
  
  
• What will your goals take in terms of time, energy, and money?
  
  Don't say no too quickly, such as if you want to take classes at night but feel you don't have the time.
  
  I highly recommend the book Wishcraft by Barbara Sher if money is a limitation.

First think about what you want to achieve and experience related to work, fun, community, spiritual, financial, relationships and health.

SuperViva Tip: When you add goals to your list, you can check off which "life dimensions" a goal touches, which makes it easier later to balance what goals you want to go for in the short term.

Now imagine your "resolution to lose 10 pounds" tied to a goal to run a marathon or go scuba diving. Or becoming a tango dance!

Come year end, you'll have a lot more to look back on than a boring weight loss process.

Step 3: Take weekly or monthly reality checks

Yes time will fly and every day life administrivia may take over. Every once in a while I stop and ask myself two important questions:

• “Is this my best year?”
• “Am I feeling good about myself?”

I often do this at quiet moments such as in the shower, while stuck in a traffic jam, or waiting for someone at a restaurant.

If either answer is no, imagine how powerful it is to know it's up to you to re-set your course toward making it your best year

Caveat: Resist thinking in terms of success or failure.

If you’re going to take the "best year" challenge, remember that things happen you can’t anticipate.

I won’t beat the proverbial dead horse and say that to remain happy you need to roll with life’s punches. Oops I guess I said it.

Well I've been there: at the end of one of my "best years" I got cancer. Of course this wasn’t on my life list. Even so I used my downtime to reconnect with friends, focus on spirituality, and learn about my body and health. Those are all things I’d been meaning to do.

Looking Ahead at Looking Back

Imagine it's December 31st and you've realized the year hasn’t turn out how you planned. If you've reviewed your life list during the year, tried changing things to improve the year, and chronicled the year’s events on your SuperViva "things I’ve done" list, you'll have a lot to look back on.

If you're not happy with the year, you can look forward to the next being your best and know that darn it, you tried!

Add "My Theme for This Year" to your SuperViva About Me page!
If you're game to say it'll be your best year, it's a great place to shout that out.

See more articles about life lists

Did this article change your life? Please donate $1 million, or whatever you can, to help fund SuperViva.

Susie created SuperViva. She's not a life coach or life planning expert but hopes sharing these thoughts inspire you to make each year your best.

If this article helped you, please send it to a friend. You can copy this article but please retain the links and copyright notice.

© SuperViva.com